Archive for the tag 'life purpose'

Purpose of Life: Have You Remembered Your Message Yet?

Marnie Pehrson May 13th, 2009

Imagine that you are standing on a white platform high above the earth. You look down at the swirling marble planet beneath you, and a wave of anticipation courses through your soul. You consider the journey upon which you are about to embark. You are only aware of the basics . . . the type of family into which you will be born, a few challenges you selected with your mentors for your optimal development. The main thing you know is that you won’t remember your life here, won’t remember your friends, your family.

You look up. There surrounding you are hundreds of others standing on their own platforms, forming a circle above the opening into space. Some look down with excited smiles, others with creases of worry upon their brows.

Each person, just like you, has a guide dressed in a flowing white robe standing beside them. You watch your best friend at the platform to your left. Her guide whispers something into her ear. She nods her head, offers you one last wave, and jumps. Down she floats, her arms spread wide, her white robe billowing as she descends toward the earth and disappears into the clouds.

You gulp, knowing your turn is coming soon. You look to your guide. “It’s almost time,” he says. His blue eyes stare deeply into yours. “Remember, remember what you decided upon. What is your mission?”

The familiar refrain runs through your mind as it has millions of times before. You know it well — what you are being sent forth to do. While everyone who descends knows they are going to obtain their body, learn to live by faith, and follow the light home, each individual also has a unique mission, a unique message they hope will guide their lives.

Some will discover it and follow it with intention. Others will stumble upon it, living it without conscious awareness. Still others will become lost in the things of the world and completely forget their message and their promise to magnify it. This is the danger of the journey.

You concentrate, repeating your one-sentence mission twice to your guide. He nods his head vigorously, “Good, good, you’ll do fine. Just remember . . . ” He repeats your mission back to you.

“But how will I remember it when I’m going to forget everything?” you ask for what feels like the hundredth time.

“There will be reminders, indicators, signs. Look for them. But most of all,” he taps you where your heart will one day beat. “Most of all, if it’s in here deep enough, it will guide you like a homing signal. Follow it. Live it. Look for the light and it will guide you home.”

Your head bobs up and down and you put your hand over your chest, repeating your mission one more time for good measure. You understand now why your mentors insisted you keep it short . . . simple . . . powerful.

“It’s time,” he says.

You close your eyes and take your very first leap of faith . . .

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Standing Out Like a City on a Hill

Marnie Pehrson February 23rd, 2009

cityonhillEvery time I look to the sky and see a hawk with its wings spread wide or watch a cotton-tail outrun dogs across the field, I marvel at the God who made them. These animals do what they do best because they don’t have all the emotional baggage and conditioning that humans have. They aren’t afraid to fly or afraid to run. The hawk’s father never told him that he’d never amount to anything. The fellow-bunnies didn’t lure the cotton-tail into hanging out at the bar so it would get fat and slow.

With the added opportunities for choice, growth, and education that humans have comes the option of choosing the wrong path or becoming distracted from the best path. It’s easy to get confused about who you are, what you’re here for, and what you do best. Even after you know your purpose, it’s still easy to get distracted and forget your place of joy.

While reading Christ’s words in Matthew 5:14-15, I realized this passage has so much to do with living our life purpose: “Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hid. Neither do men light a candle and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house.”

When we live in harmony with the message and mission God sent us to perform, the Spirit of God works in us and we naturally excel. That may be because we’re operating from a place of joy. We love what we’re doing and we could no more stop than an eagle could cease flying. This propulsion toward excellence makes us “shine.” As we stand out, we’re like the soaring hawk or the running rabbit. Perceptive people see the extraordinary and praise the God who created us.

Joseph Campbell said it this way, “If you follow your bliss you put yourself on a kind of track that has been there all the while, waiting for you, and the life that you ought to be living is the one you are living. When you can see that, you begin to meet people who are in your field of bliss, and they open doors to you. I say, follow your bliss and don’t be afraid, and doors will open where you didn’t know they were going to be.”

The danger is that a significant percentage of observers will see your excellence and never connect the dots back to God. They will praise you. Then comes the temptation to believe that it is your own ingenuity, hard work, and resourcefulness that makes you remarkable. Pride cannot coexist with gratitude to God. Always remember the source of your strength. Give glory to Him in your own mind, and at appropriate times and in appropriate ways give Him the glory in public. You do this by being the city set on a hill.

This city is what it is. It carries the light within it and it spreads forth unrestrained. The city Christ calls to mind isn’t one with gaudy neon signs or flashy billboards. It’s elegant, pristine, lovely and illuminated. It calls you toward it in a spiritual way, not a worldly way.

There is a tendency for Christians to deceive themselves into believing that they are giving glory to God while still being proud. People sense this and are turned off by it. It’s the attitude or impression that, “Yes, I’m so holy and pure, and my connection with God so complete that He’s able to do wonderful things through me. Look at me. I’m a wonderful role model.”  It’s the equivalent of using a gaudy neon sign to draw attention to ourselves.

The illuminated city points people to Christ by what it is. It sheds His light to all within its sphere of influence. It’s not hiding itself, but it’s not calling attention to itself either. It is what it is.

Having said that, there’s still a need “to connect the dots” for those who are drawn to the city but aren’t sure why they came. As you discover your purpose and live it people will be drawn to you. What do you do when they compliment you and do not understand that it is the Spirit that works in you? You have several options:

  1. You can offer a simple “thank you” and then offer a mental “thank you” to God.
  2. You can make your faith known in ordinary everyday ways that aren’t “in your face” but that leave people knowing that you are a Christian and that God is important to you.
  3. You can say something like, “Thank you, God has been good.”
  4. In some cases you may feel the need to get bold and say, “It’s not me who’s amazing, it’s the gospel of Jesus Christ. Would you like to know more?”

Each of these options fit in different circumstances and with different people. This is where listening to the Spirit for guidance comes in. As 1 Peter 3:15 says, “Sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and reverence.”

If someone is asking how you do what you do, connect those dots for them in a way that is appropriate for them. Let the Spirit be your guide, and God will help you know how to give an appropriate answer to each person. And remember timing is everything. A simply thank you may be best today whereas a bold, “It’s the gospel of Jesus Christ. Would you like to know more?” is the answer tomorrow requires for the very same person.

Challenge

I challenge you to discover and live your purpose. Let your light shine so that others will glorify your Father who is in heaven and want to know more about what you enjoy. When they come to you — for they always will when you’re living your purpose — be prepared to connect the dots in appropriate ways.

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